Torgbe advice the men that women are not slaves, they are not foolish, and they are not weak, no matter how society sometimes tries to paint them. Women are among the most intentional and powerful creations of God.
He said From childhood, women are wired with the heart of a nurturer. A woman’s love is patient, selfless, and enduring. She forgives quickly, not because she is weak, but because she values peace and relationships more than pride. That is why she will care for the same man who has wronged her, cook his food, raise his children, and still pray for his success.
Think about it: how does an abusive man feel when he sits down to eat a meal prepared by the woman he mistreats? Isn’t he afraid that one day she might finally say “enough”? Yet women rarely respond with malice. Instead, they respond with care, tenderness, and forgiveness. This is their nature — compassionate, empathetic, emotionally intelligent, and deeply intuitive.
But do not mistake kindness for passivity. A woman’s endurance is not endless. She can carry burdens that would break most people, but when pushed beyond her limit, she will rise with a strength that is quiet, fierce, and unshakable. When a woman decides she has had enough, she does not just leave a situation — she reclaims her dignity, her peace, and her future.
Women are resilient beyond measure. They endure emotional pain, financial strain, betrayal, and abuse, often silently, for the sake of their children and family. They are multi-dimensional: mothers, wives, sisters, friends, leaders, creators, and providers. They can hold a home together with nothing, turn small resources into abundance, and give emotional security where there is chaos.
This is why many of us naturally reverence our mothers more than our fathers. A father’s role is vital, but a mother’s sacrifice is visible in every detail — the sleepless nights, the unseen tears, the prayers whispered at 2 a.m., the way she puts everyone before herself. Mothers are builders of homes, healers of wounds, and guardians of legacy.
So to every man reading this: respect women. Protect them. Listen to them. Do not test their patience, because when a woman’s love turns to resolve, there is little that can stand in her way. Honor her, not just for what she does for you, but for who she is — loving, wise, strong, resilient, forgiving, and irreplaceable.
Women don’t just give life. They sustain it.
Togbui Dzablu IV
