This thing called Marriage

Good morning Bro Kay. I have something to share. My husband returned from prison about six months ago. He was away for three years after he was exposed along some other two guys for stealing from the company. The money was not retrieved and we couldn’t pay so he served three years with one of…

Good morning Bro Kay. I have something to share. My husband returned from prison about six months ago. He was away for three years after he was exposed along some other two guys for stealing from the company. The money was not retrieved and we couldn’t pay so he served three years with one of the guys. The other, I heard did four months because they paid the money. We were married for two years only when this happened. Our baby was 14 months old when he was arrested.
The money he left, which he told me about that I should use to take care of myself and invest specifically in treasure bill until he returned was Ghc 550,000 which he placed in his late father’s account. I transferred the money to myself before the father died while he was in prison.
He put the money there to avoid troubles but even his father didn’t know so when things were calm, I just took all and bought the treasure bill for six months.
I started dating this guy when my husband was away, I needed a man in my life so that was why I was dating him. I told the guy about the money. Then he said T-bill offers little interest so he had a better idea. He took GHc 150,000 to invest for me and just like that, I never heard from him again.
But because I had majority of the money left, I didn’t bother. I went back to buying the T-bill. But when it was time for my husband to return, I decided to create an account and keep GHc 300,000 in it for myself. I gave him Ghc 125,000 when he asked of the money.
He was not pleased because according to him, even if we spent the interest on the T-bill, it should be enough. So I told him someone scammed me of Ghc 400,000 which he believed but was disappointed that I even decided to invest in a Ponzi scheme. He was angry but, at least – he eventually embraced it.
I took the money for my safety and security because I heard that when people come back from prison, they misbehave and g=have some bad behaviors. I wanted the money so that if in case I had to leave him, I will have a capital.
Truly too when he came back, he hasn’t been the same. He really misbehaves and shouts anyhow. He talks like a bush person and is always cold. You can’t even play with him. He has no motivation to even work. He just lays there, eat and say mean things about people and the world.
He has already tried to hit me a few times. He beats the child he left and went to prison instead of bonding with her. I have seen that he is not well and needs help but he doesn’t think he needs help. He believes he’s okay and with time, he’s going to get his life back.
I don’t mind, I hope he gets better but with how things are going, I want to take a break with my child and give him time to heal from whatever he saw in prison that he can’t stop talking about. He talks about it as if, he’s become wiser than God or something. He needs space, not a family.
I have the money, he also has some. I can still be buying the T-bill for now. I’m thinking like this because of the safety of my child and I. But if there’s anything else anyone suggests or something someone can say to help our situation, I’m open to learning. This is my story please 🙏
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